It's okay to let go...
It’s okay to not know why…
If someone is not a vibrational match, bless them and LET THEM GO.
I would rather spend time with people who are sincere and authentic.
I would rather have fewer REAL friends than many FAKE friends.
When you say Law of Attraction, it is a philosophy that suggests positive thoughts brings in positive results, while negative thoughts bring in negative results the same way with relationships. Be it, romantic relationships, professional relationships, friendships, and the people on your path.
I have been working on leveling up my vibration through all different pieces of training, prayer, meditation, yoga, and in the last couple of years, I’ve had several friends. We just parted ways and there wasn’t really an explanation and it was really hard for me because I’m like a control freak and I want to know why and how and get closure and I have also walked away from others. Of course, I’m always willing to give an explanation but what I realized is it’s okay. It is okay for people to walk out of my life. I’d rather evoke a strong reaction in people. I’d rather them either be for me or against me than to have fake people in my life.
So it’s a “general pattern, lead, follow, or get the heck out of the way.”
I’d rather just be around people that are in my corner. As much as it hurt my feelings that I had several people walk away, I am now happy because now I know that the people who are in my world and in my circle they’re genuinely for me and supportive and I’m genuinely for them.
As you age, you won’t have time for fake people and you do not want to be around people who are inauthentic and you don’t want to be inauthentic. It drains your vibration. It drains your positivity.
If somebody is not a vibrational match with you, they’re just not gonna be on your path, they’re just not gonna be on your world and that’s okay there’s just no resonance. The law of attraction will not let that person be in your world even if you miss them, even if they were fun, even if they were entertaining. Once you start doing the deep work on your spiritual path, you have to be willing to let people go.
One of my favorite quotes is by Michael Beckwith and he says
“The spiritual path is more of a process of subtraction and then addition.”
You have to be willing to let people, places, things, and situations go that are no longer a vibrational match, that is no longer serving your highest good and that takes a lot of grace and humility and I am willing to do it now.
I love and appreciate the people that are on my path and I am so excited to be on this journey called life with them. For the people who have gotten off my path, I wish them luck on their journey and I know that it’s not personal, it’s about them.
If you are reading, if you are resonating, and if you are willing to gracefully let the people walk out of your life who are not in your corner, always know that it is okay.